You might say to yourself, "Wow, Carol Joy seems to be so involved in sewing, how does she find the time to cook and clean? She must have a lot of energy."
How do I do it? By NOT doing it--I don't clean or cook (well, my Husband has been making me a schedule so that I have to "cook" on the weekends).
I have a very nice, sweet husband who cooks and cleans almost daily. Do I count my lucky stars? You betcha.